tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458465103162971589.post1921918005331435903..comments2023-05-28T21:17:11.258-05:00Comments on Look What Danny Made!: Change of SeasonsDannyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02528188612235068004noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458465103162971589.post-1988035861182728612012-12-17T12:59:36.739-06:002012-12-17T12:59:36.739-06:00*hug* I deal with depression and it sucks. I wen...*hug* I deal with depression and it sucks. I went on medication for several months about ten years or so ago when things were really very bad, and they helped tremendously. They gave me enough balance and stability in my own head to focus on the things that I needed to do. And once all that started getting better, I didn't need the meds anymore.<br /><br />I still feel a little blue around the holiday times and especially at New Years almost every year.. but it's very mild and it passes pretty quickly.<br /><br />This year, when my life exploded, my marriage and relationship were blown to pieces, friends betrayed me, lost my cat, my job, my home, everything I'd found comfort and stability in for the past several years.. I became completely overwhelmed again. When I got here, I was a zombie.. And my doc put me back on meds. I was on them for about 3 months. Again, they gave me the stability to focus on doing what I needed to do to put my life in order.. and once things were in order again.. once again, I was able to get off of them and go back to the business of living.<br /><br />I guess what I'm trying to say is that.. I felt like I needed to deal with it all on my own, that if I couldn't -- that made me weak. And I came to realize that wasn't the case. Sometimes.. we need the help of those around us, even if it's just a listening ear. And sometimes we do need the medication, even if it's just for a while. It doesn't have to be a life sentence to pills, etc. But sometimes all you need is a little bit of control to give you something solid to stand on, so you can focus on what you need to do to get yourself going again. <br /><br />Don't ever feel bad about not being able to do it all on your own. Don't ever feel like you can't talk to others. And don't be scared of working with your doctor to find a solution that works for you. Because there's nothing quite like driving down the street on a beautiful day singing along with an awesome song and feeling like everything's going to be just fine.<br /><br />This time last year I sure didn't feel like that could be possible again.<br />But it is.Cheryl Dowlinghttp://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=534331977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458465103162971589.post-44456997541309263432012-12-17T12:59:34.723-06:002012-12-17T12:59:34.723-06:00Thank you for sharing this, Danny. It's not ea...Thank you for sharing this, Danny. It's not easy to open up and say, "Hey, I'm struggling here, and I don't know why." I have taken antidepressants for over 12 years. After I struggling with some feelings of shame, I came to realize that as much as I wish I didn't have to, the medicine is necessary for me (just like insulin for a diabetic). I recently went through several months of hopeless feelings. My motivation was lacking, and unloading the dishwasher or folding the clothes in the dryer seemed like more effort than I could handle. (It's amazing how many times you'll "fluff" clothes when you don't want to fold them!) Thankfully, through adjusting my medicine and talking with my counselor, I am coming out of this depression.<br /><br />So what is my point? One, just know you are not alone. Two, I'm proud of you for reaching out and for sharing your struggle. Three, I'd be happy to share more of my experience with you if you'd like.<br /><br />Don't worry, Danny. In time, the sun that has been up in the sky for awhile will come out from behind the clouds.<br /><br />TriciaTricia Cartwrightnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458465103162971589.post-38423449266087281172012-12-17T12:59:33.762-06:002012-12-17T12:59:33.762-06:00It takes a strong man to admit when he's not f...It takes a strong man to admit when he's not feeling strong. I'm proud of you, friend. *insert smart ass comment that makes you laugh* xoxoAlihttp://www.theviewfromthejohnsons.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458465103162971589.post-33142553367910925692012-12-17T12:59:32.732-06:002012-12-17T12:59:32.732-06:00Danny, Danny. You should not feel embarrassed. L...Danny, Danny. You should not feel embarrassed. Life is hard as it is! Raising small kids, working, getting older... and to boot you have unexpectedly lost your dad, way before you ever expected to. You are still grieving my friend! Which is NORMAL! I will keep you in my prayers and I know you will be ok! Katie K.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458465103162971589.post-1565205730031433892012-12-17T12:59:30.731-06:002012-12-17T12:59:30.731-06:00*spelling is also hard.*spelling is also hard.Laura Bnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458465103162971589.post-33466444493291792122012-12-17T12:59:29.746-06:002012-12-17T12:59:29.746-06:00This live is very hard sweetheart. Good job takin...This live is very hard sweetheart. Good job taking it by the balls. Love you.Laura Bnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458465103162971589.post-14550170415671588152012-12-17T12:59:28.754-06:002012-12-17T12:59:28.754-06:00First of all, I love that picture of you and Jack,...First of all, I love that picture of you and Jack, you guys look so sweet! Kudos to you for sharing this friend, it's takes a lot to ask for help and to put everything out there for everyone....but in the process you'll see just how many people care for you and are pulling for you buddy! Hugs my friend :)Jennnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458465103162971589.post-28033809086047995872012-12-17T12:59:27.753-06:002012-12-17T12:59:27.753-06:00Maybe one of the best things you've written, D...Maybe one of the best things you've written, Danny. Certainly the bravest. I can't tell you how much I admire your candor.<br /><br />Life is an endless cycle of ups and downs. Sometimes the downs seem immeasurably long. You'll get this figured out. I really applaud you for talking to someone about it.<br /><br />Shame on me for not saying something, but I've also wondered where your blog has been. I figured you were just taking a break...like the one original posting I've had in the last year! I always look forward to what you write and our interactions both on FB and in person.<br /><br />Let's kick this thing off right and spark an international incident. THAT was fun! Well, for all of us that didn't have to deal with it.<br /><br />Hang in there, buddy, and you've got my number if there's anything at all I can do.Roy Bassettnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2458465103162971589.post-39769376042223387112012-12-17T12:59:26.856-06:002012-12-17T12:59:26.856-06:00Oh Danny, I'm so sorry to hear that you are ha...Oh Danny, I'm so sorry to hear that you are having trouble. Good for you for looking for help. It sounds like you are on the right track.Academomianoreply@blogger.com